Where I Belong

This one was posted first in March, 2016.

This one is unquestionably the most Elton John-y thing Iā€™ve ever written.Ā  I knew it from the second I started it, and I just decided to follow it. Ā  I think it would be right at home on his first album (and probably played better).

I wrote this one while I was out of work a number of years ago, in the latter stretches before getting an offer.Ā  At the time, I was clearly contemplating what mistakes Iā€™d made to put myself in that position, and how to gain some redemption. Ā  I donā€™t think it was conscious when I wrote it but, in retrospect, I think all that bled into the song.

I actually finished this one on my first day of work at my new job. Ā  My day of hire was an earnings call day, and bringing me in that day was just pure silliness (that shouldā€™ve told me something right there).Ā  They sat me alone in a conference room, with a copy of the employee handbook, for two hours, while they addressed fire drills. Ā  I used that time to finish these lyrics.

Iā€™m sure a couple people would argue I shouldā€™ve studied the handbook moreā€¦

Happy birthday Harry! Harryā€™s the white dog on the front of the site, who would have turned 18 today. And Hogan’s fourth birthday- (he isn’t pictured on the site yet,) but he joined the family a few months before we lost Harry in October 2020.

We took off ā€œHe Can Change Your Lifeā€ this week. Thanks for listening.

Tom Petty

I feel like I should say something this week because thereā€™s no question that Petty was one of my top 5 influences. You can hear it in my vocals, you can see it in the structure of bridges in my songsā€”I see it all over the place. I adored his first five albums from start to finish (yes, even Long After Dark). The early-era Pettyā€”feisty, fighting for his existenceā€”was glorious.

In his last interview, he talked about being an artist. ā€œIt was about something much greater. It was about moving peopleā€¦I really believed in rock-n-roll. I believed in it in its purest sense, its purest form.ā€

I hope some of the spirit of that quote comes through here on this site. I can safely say this site doesnā€™t exist without that man.

One Year Anniversary

Weā€™re about to move into a new year, which means weā€™ve hit the one year anniversary of what we deem the official ā€œlaunchā€ of the site. Weā€™ve posted 37 songs so far, and there are a lot more to go (headed to 150+, I hope). For those that are sticking with it, I really appreciate the support, and I hope youā€™re enjoying the songs.

As an FYI, this is the sparkline of traffic for the last year, relying almost solely on word of mouth:

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Considering that someone only needs to come to the site once every 20 weeksā€¦I think weā€™re holding our own. If we could add about two orders of magnitude to the underlying numbers, we might have something.

Seriously, thoughā€¦thanks again. This site has been ridiculously healthy for everyone involved.

So If Youā€™re Visiting Fargoā€¦and You Meet Richard Marx in an Elevatorā€¦

On my continued tour of places I havenā€™t been toā€¦I was in Fargo, North Dakota for a night (I saw the wood chipper!). Richard Marx was playing the Fargo theatre two blocks away, and I wound up on an elevator with him at the hotel. I didnā€™t even know he was in townā€”I never looked at the concert line-up.

As I was headed to the lobby bar that night, I realized I left my iPad upstairs in my hotel room. So, I was out in the lobby, turned back around, and then went to get on an elevator to go back up. At the same time, Richard and another man with him were in the lobby dealing with fans, and then they went to the elevator as well. They got on first, and I walked on without needing to stop, right in stride. Butā€¦to themā€¦it probably looked like I saw him, turned around, and chased him.

It was just the three of us. About half way up, I realized I had one last ā€œgregorsongs.comā€ business card in my wallet (Iā€™m out of stock). Should I give it to him? I already look like a stalker. This probably wonā€™t go well.

I stepped out on the 9th floor with them, which was not my floor (and not his floor, as they were doing the get-out-and-then-get-another-elevator-to-go-to-the-actual-room routine). I gave him a card. He was polite. Butā€¦clearlyā€¦this has happened before.

What Richard was thinking: ā€œI knew we shouldnā€™t stay in the only three star+ hotel in downtown Fargo. This is what we get. Everyone knows where Iā€™d have to stay. This guy lives here and heā€™s been waiting for this moment for months. This sucks.ā€

What I was thinking: ā€œI just handed my card to a guy thatā€™s sold 30M records, and is known in the industry as a songwriting guru. Did I just lose control of my stuff?ā€ Sure I have copyright control of these thingsā€¦but you can change lyrics and chords. Who knows what it triggers.

My hunch isā€¦.the card was tossed before he got to his actual floor. Butā€¦I regret it. I shouldā€™ve left him alone.

Slowing Down the Updatesā€”Every Two Weeks

As Iā€™ve gone through this process the last few weeks, Iā€™ve been trying to assess what the right pace should be for posting songs. Ā  So far, I have to say that posting a song a week has felt a little frenetic. Ā  It feels too fast. Ā  Iā€™m also concerned that if/when my schedule returns to normal, Iā€™ll have a hard time meeting my own deadlines.

Iā€™m going to take a stab at a different pacing. Ā  Letā€™s try posting a new song every 2 weeks, on the 15th and the 30th of each month.

I might change my mind about that after we do some things to attract more people to the site (weā€™re really still in build mode here), but thatā€™s probably a little ways off.

As usual, let me know what you thinkā€¦